John, Not sure how to comfort you in this mess. I think what Woong says makes sense ... there's that fine line between the guilt and anger. And in between there's a lot of manipulation ... you may be led to believe because you were like this or did that it drove her to OM, etc. So be careful. My definition of love is made up of a lot of fidelity and commitment, but that's too old fashioned for most people. Do you still go to that cigar bar?
