I agree with Saffie. Yoyo, you are amazing. You are exactly right-- what you said to H was exactly what needed to be said. Good for you not allowing him to find a way to wriggle out of this again. He knows this time that if he again lets it slide then he is giving you tacit approval for proceeding with D. The ball's in his court but your not going to let him continue to stall either. Excellent.