Hey kat and karen you are both right

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Kat: But if you keep looking at the closed door you won't see the one that is open beside you
I know what you mean, I have to get the stbx out of my head. W just called to see what I was doing, asked if I was going out tonight, said I didn't have to tell her where, I just said yes I'm going out.

I'm just going up to bar where she works (she has the kids so she isn't working) both her and I are good friends with owners. Going to grab some dinner and a few beers.

I have been thinking of dating again, not right now but probably next year, will not be looking for anything serious just someone to have fun with (will let them know up front - honesty best policy) I don't want to jump into something right away but would love to have someone to do things with. Going to be rough on me being so shy.

W41
M10.75 years
D9, D6, D6, S5
OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me
WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08
W files for D 07/18/08
Date I'll forgive W for A = never