Your stbx wanted to hold hands and was warm? Um has he expressed remorse for his behaviour yet? Are you done with him for sure or are open to getting back with him... Just wondering.
Your S is exactly 2 months older than my D. Cool! Wish him a happy birthday!
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Hi Kalni !! I thikn you are going to get inundated with comments now...
Originally Posted By: Kalni
stbxH was here when I got back and was very warm and wanted to hold hands etc.
Wow Kalni, I remember the days you were thrilled that he kissed the back of your head then ran out the door..or left shoes on the table for you.. and now you casually mention that he was trying to hold your hand !!?? Funny how time changes things, but sad too.
I'm with Jen.. curious to know if your H is 'dead' to you or are you being cold and mean, as you said, for a reason? Is he still with ow, or do you not know? Would it make a difference if he begged you to try again, told you how mistaken and sorry he is, how much he loved you, why he did it etc? Glad you are back, we missed you! Although, as this is cyber space, it doesnt really matter where you are, physically.
So you didnt get to see Little Woog then ??
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
I guess it is jetlag. I am usually not that slow...
Other questions? I have no idea what he does in his life. I asked him on his way out to proceed with the D and he said he will. Does that answer any of your questions?
I was a bit mean because he acted so weird tonight, as if he had missed me teribly. 4 months ago I would be reporting for major steps. The man hugged me a couple of times, joked with me, tried to pull my arms around him while he was sitting down IN FRONT of our kids. My Ds next question was "is dad sleeping here tonight? Can you believe how immature he is acting? I dont think he is asking for forgiveness in this life. If he did I would be scr$wed because I would then have to consider my kids' good and my own well being. But I dont even want to think about that. So far he is only not letting go, he is not asking for anything. Today he said he will proceed with the papers... We will see... K
