My H dropped the bomb end of May, has been out since July. He filed in Aug and we went for the first collaborative law meeting on Sept 19. All is could do was cry at the first meeting. He doesnt talk or call me. There is an OW who has left her family too. We have two teenage sons and she has an adopted two year-old! I have read DB and I have to admit I dont think Im dong it very well. My H who wouldnt go to counseling agreed to see my counselor so that she " could help me get over him". She is a beliver in solutions based counseling but when I ask her what to do now she says you have done everything and sometimes it doesnt work. I have mixed feeling abuut how to act with my H. I feel like if Im "NICE" to him than he will think Im OK with what he is doing. I am not mean to him, I just literally cant talk to him. I feel like it is torturing me.
H 47 Me 47 Married 24 years together 30 2 boys 16 18 Dropped bomb end of may 08 Sep July 08 D started Sept 19 HS sweethearts
