I didn't pay any attention to his cell phone and I also didn't say anything to him. It would have gotten him upset and then he may have thought "I'm not even y¿using the phone and she mentions it....so if she's going to say something no matter what it's just as well if I use it" That's my xh reasoning and I know this becaue he's actually said similiar things to me.
Last night he dropped us off and he said he was going to his parents but when he left he drove in the opposite direction so I guess (but I could be wrong) that he went somewhere else (maybe to where whoever was texting him was).
I guess I'll stay dim now for today. I told him last night if he wanted to come over to call me so I won't ask him anymore. He knows he's welcome here whenever he wants.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Well we spoke and he's on his way to go to the park with us. I asked but did he accept. I guess in my sitch it doesn't matter if I ask. Vernetta said I shouldn't invite so much.... maybe she's right. But I don't want to play games with him
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
We had to come back early because it started to rain . I got a little upset because I wanted him to come back for dinner and he said no because he had things to do. Anyway as he explained his day is Saturday and even though he went to the park with us it's his choice on how to spend his day not mine.
It wan't an arguement but I did come across as selfish so I must remember not to do that again.
He does have to come back to get D around 8.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Sounds like you need to tighten up things and fine tune your actions and attitudes so that you do not let him see you upset over things like that.
You need to focus on being happy, fun to be aorund Jen. Not needy Jen who fusses when he has to leave. Because you will eventually scare him away to the point he won't want to come around because of your reaction when he leaves, and you don't want that!
There was a trigger which set me down that path today: we were in his sister's car and she had a dog tag from Disney hanging from her rearview mirror and it was engraved with her and BFs names. When they were in Disney xh bought his EA one too. I was upset so I told him because of the dog tag. I forgot all about the necklace of course I also forgot that he bought me stuff in Disney too.
It spiralled down from there.
He thought I was being selfish but it is his day today so I should respect that.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
. I got a little upset because I wanted him to come back for dinner and he said no because he had things to do. Anyway as he explained his day is Saturday and even though he went to the park with us it's his choice on how to spend his day not mine.