So ever since H sent that email on Thursday, it is like something has shifted in a major way. He reached out to me this evening, just to talk about our cat and our house, but was joking around a bit, calling me little names etc. I know not to read too much into every contact, but the contact IS getting more frequent, and it is getting more playful. I am very much on my guard, and not bringing up any R talk, but when they say believe nothing of what they say...does this ever change? Can we believe the good but not the bad? If someone is usually spitting venom, does this make the niceties even more momentous because they MUST be heartfelt to come from inside such an angry place?
Not trying to understand H's motivation, just wondering whether maybe my rollercoaster ride might be a little less rocky now...
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!