Originally Posted By: snodderly
Trusting,
Until he comes out of the fog, realizes what's happened and admits that he's lost it all, he will not be at the bottom of life. He's still got a quite a bit of the old "stubborn" in him. Once that's gone, then the bottom will be in sight.


BOTTOM is truly so very very far down... farther than I think even we can admit.

Trusting - I am so glad you are "safe" from him and his financial problems. I have been thinking about my own ordeal--- taht we dont have to carry that part anymore.

seeing him cry - his loss of reality - the pain of who he has become..man i hope he can face it all so he can begin to go up....it takes a huge person to be able to do it..facing it all will be so very hard for him.

i am sorry my friend.... very sorry


M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again