Trusting, Until he comes out of the fog, realizes what's happened and admits that he's lost it all, he will not be at the bottom of life. He's still got a quite a bit of the old "stubborn" in him. Once that's gone, then the bottom will be in sight.
BOTTOM is truly so very very far down... farther than I think even we can admit.
Trusting - I am so glad you are "safe" from him and his financial problems. I have been thinking about my own ordeal--- taht we dont have to carry that part anymore.
seeing him cry - his loss of reality - the pain of who he has become..man i hope he can face it all so he can begin to go up....it takes a huge person to be able to do it..facing it all will be so very hard for him.
i am sorry my friend.... very sorry
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again