Gosh! You're not even together and already you are argueing!! I was reading that sensing that he feels rather confused.. you have been flirting for England and dressing up (for your H/DBing) but it has split over into all areas of your life.. you have openly flirted with him and frankly you must have driven the poor man mad! Ironically you have done everything right if you look at the conventional wisdom of snaring a man.. becuase your energies are meant for your H, but he's not responding. Meanwhile, CEO is probably going bananas trying to work out whats going on with you.. you must be the ultimate unnobtainable prize.

I dont understand the striptease comment.. did he think you were being too familiar/provocative??? Or just 'revealing' too much about the subject matter? I agree that he sees you in a sexual light, else he would have made some other analogy.

I also noticed that you are getting quite personal with him, in your reactions, and getting angry.. I wonder if thats appropriate with your boss!? But it must feel natural to be that way with him (which is a sign of a deepening connection between you?) but also, do you thnk that you are perhaps transferring some anger from your sitch with your H leaving/not coming back?

Lastly, if your CEO is getting more and more dangerous to you and thats bad for DBing.. are you still 100% committed to your H then? Do you not want to be distracted/swept off your feet by a succesful, intelligent, good looking, thoughtful, expressive man ??? ;\) I guess not, because love is love and you still love your H.

Ali x


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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