OM was perfect for an mlc (if that's what this was). He is younger than me, was in much better shape, no kids, freshly divorced (horney and looking for fun) a pilot and considered by X to be a "great guy."
She probably does take me for granted. She's got it pretty good right now (cake eating). I needed to prove myself to her and I have. However I was angry for a long time and she still thinks I'm angry when I'm not, happened again this AM. She sees me as a friend and can talk with me about anything. There are some things she doesn't feel comfortable talking to OM about as she has actually commented, "You're the only person I can talk with about this."
When she called she said she talked to new girl about fixing us up on a date. New girl said that would be weird cause they work together and I'm her X. X said she told new girl I'm a really nice guy and it would be OK. Weird.
What is weirder is if she fixes us up I'm going.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13