One thing that might help is to remember that even though it doesn't feel like it sometimes, i.e. with ML and the pretty frequent contact, you are probably still in stage 1. This is NOT the time where you want your H to be making decisions. If you push him, he IS likely to just say he's had enough. You're right he should miss you, and want to see you and all of that. However, who's to say that he doesn't?
Just because he isn't calling you, texting you etc., does not mean you aren't always on his mind. My H told me he missed me for the first time on Thursday, after the day before telling me marriage to me was like prison. It took a LOOOONNNNG time to get to that point. Now I am sure we are at that point for awhile, as he even reiterated the next day. However we're only at that point because I quit trying to talk to him about his feelings for me. I think it was him seeing that I could handle his anger that allowed him to soften.
What helped me, and I don't know if it will help you, was looking at the MLC poster happy_again I know your H is too young for an MLC, but so many of the symptoms seem to be similar. It really helped me to look at this person's posts as they were so angry initially, so childish, but started softening day by day. It really reminded me of what my WAH seemed to be doing, and maybe yours too...
So you haven't heard from him for 2 days. This isn't that bad. There are plenty of people on the boards who go weeks without contact. Can you maybe give him through the weekend to show that you get it, that you understand that you don't need to pressure him, and then send him on text on Monday (if you don't hear from him in the meantime) asking him how his weekend was or something? I think this would really show him how strong you are...
Anyway I hope you feel better soon!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
