My point was that there was no afternoon showering or additional scented products used after they were together. And, no, I have no illusions about her "manipulation." Right now, it's just sex. If if is guilt sex, then OK. She is the one who has objectified the R and chosen the path of infidelity. If she up and leaves, fine by me. It took several months for me to get to a place where I can say that, but the anxiety is really gone and now it is more intellectual curiosity as to exactly what they are doing.
I am still debating about whether to expose her to end the subterfuge and right now, I am getting closer to the point of being able to accept the negative consequences, if ther are any. Of course I can only hope for the best and that she will repent and want to work on the M and R, but if there is going to be an accrimonious fight, I may just pack up her clothes and toss them out on the front lawn.
