Why does X want to re-negotiate the settlement? Is it to come up with a reasonable plan for you to get your money?
I know exactly what you mean about not wanting to talk to him in person. I just do so much better for myself if I don't have to see or talk to X. But on the kid issue it is a little different.
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.I said that anytime he wanted to discuss issues with our D, I'd speak with him as long as it stayed on track. We did discuss some things regarding D and it was OK.
Good for you for setting boundaries and insisting it stay on track! One reason I don't even like to talk to X is because he gets very inappropriate as soon as he can. The man has big issues with boundaries. Insisting that the convo stay on point is a good idea.
SG
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