4. What is “it”? If the WAS knew the LBS game plan (DB) would it be harder?
Truly WITH ALL DUE RESPECT to you and your stich, you said you came here to find his playbook. After being here and writing and reading things on this forum, do you want to reconcile with H now? Have you change your mind about what you want to do about your M/R? Please take no offence to my questions.
Have the things you have read here made you think differently about your stich? If so what?
It appears to me that many of the people here have experienced a lot of the same feelings, emotions, and mindsets. In addition, it sounds to me a number of WAS’s have changed there minds about walking away. Some even regret their decision and want “Do Overs “. Sometimes it looks to me that tier pride get in the way.
I do agree with you about that DBing is like mind game. Dr. Phil has a book out called how a woman can catch a man (or something like that) I haven’t read it, but it was explained to me like this. It is like a game. You can’t win unless you play. Do you want to be right or do want to win ion a R. I may have this a little backwards, but life is a game, that all of us play everyday. We learn from wining, but we learn more from losing sometimes. I think we should learn what every way we receive the information. If we don’t change we stand still and everything move on and we are left behind standing alone.
