I think she is doing the same thing. Sometimes I think she is reading the same books I am.
She might be. I came here with that mindset of understanding what I thought might be H's 'playbook' to get me back. It does come up fairly high on search engines when 'divorce' is typed in.
good luck & peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.