Since you all were talking about it, what is "The Secret." ? You get what you focus on?
Read what you said about the texts Jen. Makes sense doesn't it? You ignore bad behavior, reward good behavior. I case you don't know I believe that men are like dogs, very trainable and eager to please. That being said you all seem to like to try and catch guys doing DAM things, what do you find? We do all kinds of DAM things, so stop focusing on it. If I want to find all kinds of things my W beotches about all I have to do is focus on it. Not productive for any of us. Focus on the solutions, making ourselves better, and being better spouses. Hope you all have a great second half of the weekend. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
