All I wanted was stability for the kids, and since i had been the primary parent for years, that seemed logical to me.
Exactly what I want! And, exactly what I have been! I think that the custody evaluator will look at the same stuff that the guardian ad litem did in your case. I had just hoped we wouldn't have to go that far and that somehow he would come to his senses!
cat - right now he has her every other F/S and every W/Th he sees her but stays overnight at our home. And, yes.. sometimes in bed after 10:00. Her teacher has even commented on how tired she gets. Sooo, even if he had her every W/Th night, it still isn't his beloved 50/50. However, you have made me think about how I could possibly compromise and still maintain as much stability for school as possible... hmmm... I suppose an option is for him to have her every other F/S and every Th night. At least that school night is at the end of the week... I dunno... Have to think some more...
Funny thing is that we are agreeable on everything else.. Every financial detail.. everything.. Crazy..
