"I would not push her to stay...you will only push her further away...just my 2 cents. If she hints towards wanting to stay, then bring it up. But only if she brings it up.”
I was leaning that way. At this point in time I have gone DARK. I have tried this before with little success on my part. It is like tell a kid they can’t have any candy and that makes them want it even more. I think she is doing the same thing. Sometimes I think she is reading the same books I am.
“I think it says a lot that she is taking you to this appt. she could have said "hell no" i'm not getting up at 3am!!! which is what my H would have said!!!”
You think this is a good thing?
I think it is as well, but I some times think I see things she does in a more positive light than others. Even though I don’t think in her mind she wants to come back to the M at this point.
Are you sitch improving any? Do you feel you are making headway? Thanks for keeping up with me.
