Let's just be clear.

I have not called your situation "busted."

First off, I don't GET to do that. It's YOUR sitch.

Secondly, while I think things are going VERY well, I would never suggest you adopt the mindset that all is well.

I hope you understand this.

When I said I thought you were clearly rebuilding a marriage rather than busting a divorce, I was asking you to change your focus.

Not that this is in any way a game, but sometimes you play like a loser. You play like there's no chance.

I would just like to see you adopt more of a "almost there, I know it's going to happen" kind of attitude. Seems to me that kind of attitude would make a difference in your sitch.


Sorry for making you think I had declared your divorce busted.

Never intended to suggest that.


Bill


"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."