I would not push her to stay...you will only push her further away...just my 2 cents. If she hints towards wanting to stay, then bring it up. But only if she brings it up.
I'm glad you are doing better.
I think it says a lot that she is taking you to this appt. she could have said "hell no" i'm not getting up at 3am!!! which is what my H would have said!!!
keep up the PMA
christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
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