Lost track of you for a bit. Glad to see you're still hanging in there. My D was around the same time as yours. I've such a hard time dealing with the ugliness of it (on her part...I remained civil) that I haven't been able to bring myself to go through it again in my head in order to update my own thread!
I know about the anniversary thing. Mine was just the other day. Threw myself into my work and just scheduled myself so tight I didn't have time to think about it. It worked, but I suppose a therapist would say I wasn't dealing with my issues as much as running away from them. Still, it's hard to argue with success.
I see from the date on your post you haven't been around in several months. Hope you are doing well and, should you drop by again, please give us an update.
