has his C agreed that it is depression? it sure seems like it, first thing a depressed person does is try to drown their sadness in alcohol. REad 'talking to depression" to have a better understanding of what he is going through".
Leave R talk behind for now, no reproach, no baits, no drama. If you need to vent, vent her or with friend, he is having a hard time as it is, he will not reasure you the way you want to be reassured right now. Keep seeing C on your own to help you deal with this sitch,i hightly recommend you see a C ofte.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.