cat - I know that she needs her Dad in her life. Trust me.. I know this.. I certainly don't want to deny him time with D5. It's just that the poor child is exhausted during the school week when she spends time with him because he doesn't seem to know that a young child needs more than 6 hours of sleep! I don't want to deny him time with her - just limit overnights with her during the school year. It seems like legally everyone gets so hung up on how many overnights each parent gets..