Sorry I missed answering the body thing. H has always groused about getting a bald spot. His bros both had bigger ones 10 and 20 yrs. before his even showed. His hair's nearly all gray, some white ones in there also. I don't care. As long as he understands a comb-over is a deal breaker LOL He hates those also & we laugh when we see the wind catch one & it flaps up showing the chrome dome. Anyway, not a real big thing.
He's mentioned his weight. For his cardiac health he needs to drop 20#. Sees cardiologist in March. Guarantee he'll get on him about it. He's done it before. Wt. goes away, then comes back. He's a "foodie" and if he quits eating one thing, he'll start something else. He's been 15-20# heavier than he is now. Made snoring and apnea worse. I don't mind the belly as much as I worry about its connection to his health. I don't think that's a big cause of lowering the LD. Since he's started saying he's "old" that might bother him, but its more recent than the problem itself. When I brought up my weight as a cause of his disinterest, he just said he's heavier, too. I do wonder about how bad he really feels about hitting 60. I'm used to thinking about him as being younger than I am and not how he felt about hitting a number. I have to say, 60 is a shock. I felt like "what the hell, how did this happen? What was I doing? Where did the time go?" Other women say similar things. Never heard a guy comment about it.
Maybe I'll find a way to explore that in a subtle way. Just don't think if he had a libido it'd bother him.
Exasperation, not contempt.
me: 66 H:60 2 adult sons 2 grandsons adult daughter deceased 5/05 me:Part time trainer H: plant suprv.
