You were a little late posting today.. did you get paralyzed by my analysis?
Or where you overwhelmed that I beat Bill.. and had something useful to say?
I gotta say.. Thanks Ndsmhelp. You have really shown your true colors with me poking fun at you. I have enjoyed our little chats a lot. I appreciate that you "see" the tone of the post's from me. That means a lot to me personally.. that at least you are getting something from it.
Sometimes I have to read your posts over once....or ten times, but yes...I get it. The sarcasm....my wife told me long ago that I turned D into a sarcastic little sh**...thought I was the king, but you got it, FG.
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At the same time she has not "kicked you out". To everyone looking in.. you have won. DB'd it. To me.. you are still floundering around a bit.. and it makes the situation a little "iffy". To put it more bluntly.. I think until you have things.. your way.. we may keep seeing you posting. Understand and accept.. things will never be 100% your way. You gotta find the middle ground.
Until she gives me the "words" am I not still DBing? I understand what you are saying, and the last few posts from Bill, Steady, Phoenix...assume it is busted...act as if, maybe, but you are probably right. I am going to flounder a bit until I am certain and the only way I will be truly certain is to HEAR it, not see it. I am still under the assumption that this could all go the opposite way tomorrow.
But...I get it..maybe a little more clearly because of her recent actions....she sees it...I don' think I ever really believed that...she can tell the difference between me trying to make her happy, and me being happy on my own.
OK...I am missing the debate. I still want to journal a little so maybe I will come back.
