Ready2Change (7) - Two Lives

[Bliss]

Sounds like you are having a great nite....

Mr Watusi is planning on going for a bike ride after work. I plan on doing some ME time tonight. I need some alone time.....

Sad thing for me, before all of this I cherished alone time....felt like it was heaven sent! Now, I hate the silence. It's just too darn loud for me!

Can't wait until I cherish alone time again...but this time, really being alone and actually liking it. That does happen eventually, doesn't it?

Hugs,

Bliss

[Ready2Change]

Yes it does. I am enjoying my alone time. I am enjoying my time with the kids. I am enjoying time with others. It is all about balance!

[HFGW]

Good idea. Get the blood flowing.

[Gypsy]

Ready..

That sounds perfect!

*hugs*

[poet]

Hey there Ready,

I've heard good things about you and how well you are doing. I just thought I'd drop by and read up on it. I love your GALing. I'm going to see a financial planner today, who says she will help me to fill out my "financial affidavit." This seems like the hardest thing I've had to do so far.

Take care!
poet

[Joe]

Hey Ready,

Just read your sitch and I have to hand it to you man, you have things down pat.

Love the following you have as well - lots of advice!

Glad we are riding this out together. One thing I have realized is that I need to pick up my GALing and get to a happy place. Things may be positive between my W and all right now, but Im sorta waiting for the other shoe to drop.

I dont think it will though because Im keeping that PMA going and my W is reading that off me big time.

Keep up the good work R2C.

Joe

[Gypsy]

Hey Ready..

I think you've become the GAL King.. is there such a thing?

*hugs*

[Ready2Change]

GAL-

Photo shoot- Asylum Champions Wrestling - Had a great time. Good to be out on a Sat night...

On the way home, stopped at a dance hall with live music. Drank some water and enjoyed the music. Had 3 women talk to me and another grabbed me for a dance. What a boost to the ego! Very interesting going out with no intentions, no expectations and alone. It was a nice experience......

[OnTheEdge22]

Ready - Thanks for continuing to check in on my thread. I'm going to pile on here and say what an inspiration you are (to the men and women on here). You're doing great and it is very helpful to have good role models here in our time of need.

Just wanted to let you know that you're helping many here, including yourself!

I do have a couple questions for you, but will post on my thread. Thanks!

Edge

[Ready2Change]

I finished reading Hendrix"Keeping the love you find".

I highly recommend reading it. It is very DEEP but I think he is dead nuts on.

P299 - "You will know you are almost to the gates of paradise when you feel like you are falling into the pits of hell"

SOOOOO- We need to love our S unconditionally. Even during this most difficult time in our R.

I saw W today. I "happily" gave her this months spousal maint check. I happily asked her if it was enough and if she needed more.....does this go against my natural self defenses??? Am I putting HER needs before my own????

She seemed softer today, but that may just be my perception based on my current state of mind. I know she is hurting.

She quickly left. I called. Asked about the status of the kids homework. She responded with why didn't you ask kids. I responded with you are the parent. I need to know what they did this weekend and what you think they need to do tonight.

She said they need a break from HW and could read....