New Thread-Husband Moved in With OW(T2L)

[twinhope]

Hope, I am so sorry you have to go through this with your D's. You would think that the pain that these H's are causing their children would at least thin the fog! But no way they continue on with these wacked out ideas of what is best for them b/c they are not happy. Well I am very proud of you and how you are handling things. You have such great strength. Keep moving forward you can do it.

Well my H was confronted by one of my friends last week and she let him have it in a nice way. She called him out on all of his foolishness and how everybody knows about the OW and how much of a dirt bag she is. She said that the R will never last. She thought it did nothing to him but come to find out we all see the same C and the C thanked my friend for saying something to my H b/c he talked about it in his session and that he thinks it really helped. I have 2 thoughts, 1. Is that not breaking patient confid. and 2. I wonder if he might be realizing how studpid he has been. He has been nicer to me since his appointment and he even offered to help me with something with the house and told me how nice the yard looks. He has not done that since he has left. He also called me yesterday when he had the girls to tell me something cute our D's did. He has not done that either. Sometimes I think he returns for a brief moment and then back to the same old.

I started my new job today. I have a month of home study so it will be a nice break for me. I have to use my time wisely. I go away for a week of training in Nov. I am not looking forward to that.

I hope everyone has a great weekend! I saw on Dr. Phil yesterday they were talking about the movie Fireproof. Please report back about what you think of the movie.

Stay strong, be patient, and pray!