Hey jak.. just the local mall. nothing major. just need to get the kids out of the house...

so.... h calls me tonight, is in a bad mood \:\( I just say i hope he was doing ok and that we all missed him here...

Then in the same breath tells me he is going to go to "hooters' to remind me of home, is that supposed to make me feel better???

Why would he say something so stupid when he is so far away right now. sometimes i think he has his head up his azz. He just doesn't think.

BUT I didn't say anything, or freak out, he actually ended the call and I just said by, with no missing you's or ily's. It wasn't intentional, but i just didn't feel like saying it at that point after such a thoughtless comment.

this may all sound small, but this crap tends to set me back. I can't help that, but I didn't react like I would have usually acted which would have been to say "what the hell is that supposed to mean" I just said nothing.

Anyways, am i missing something here, if anyone is up right now, please explain this to me.

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.