He is competely selfish. That is why we're fighting about custody. He realized that I was going to get something that he wasn't and freaked out.

I talked to my Dad for a long time this afternoon - not my Mom - she is waaaay too opinionated. Anyway, he had the same questions as me.. How can the courts rule for pure joint custody when stbx was never a 50% Dad to begin with?? He thinks it's so unfair when I've been such a good Mom \:\) He told me that I could NOT give in or give up this fight and that they would pay whatever L fees were involved.

My Mom did say something that brought tears to my eyes... She is so concerned that they will be excluded from a lot of D5's life in the future. She said that is so upsetting to her because my Dad is such a great male role model for D5. Awww... Yup.. I was a Daddy's girl, too!