You are right True it probably would make no difference by telling him how you feel. Remember men don't feel!
You could always let him know h I am NOT interested in filing at this time. When they are in a state of crisis nothing you really say is going to get to their soul.
Good luck with your h, don't let the years get to you. It's over 2 for me now.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"