My life is a telenovela

[Truelove]

Hi Vali,
You were right, I was more sad than usual because it was a grey day and cold as well. Today I feel a bit better as we had a beautiful sunset.

I am sorry about your H moving in with OW. They will get on each other's nerves as the day to day problems will start soon.

Have a lovely and relaxing week-end. (((HUGS)))

[ACJ]

Okay,so I was right....STBXH moved into OW's house...

At least he didn't do it right at the very beginnig. Still hurts I know but you are better able to deal with it now.

[fig]

at least his crazy assssss isn't in yours!!!!

I know it hurts sweetie
no matter how detached we are

there is a pang

belch

[Valentine]

True, I have decided that those two deserve each other and I deserve to have a happ y fabulous life where I am loved and adored by many....LOL!

In all seriousness, it just goes to show how low these people go: How the mighty have fallen....that statement is SO true...

Onward and upward is my motto!!!


Glad you are feeling better...it is gorgeous here...think I will take the Diva for a walk....we both need the exercise!

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Truelove))))))))))))))))))))))))

Valentine

[Valentine]

Alison, who knows what that clown was doing when he moved out...for all I know he never really broke it off with her...but you know what? I don't care anymore...

I have to admit that you are right and it would have hurt worse if he had moved right in with her...but that might have made me get to divorce a lot quicker...but everything happens in its own good time and I trust God on this journey...so no second guessing really...it is what it is now...

The sun is shining and I AM better equipped to deal with him and his shenanigans much better now!

Hugs,
V

[BethM]

Way to go V......

What they do or don't do is of no consequence to us. Your life is going to be so full and happy and that is what matters.

Believe me, he'll have his own crap to deal with eventually and you can't be blamed for that.

Hope you have a great day.....Enjoy that sunshine. Oh wait, you're in Texas not in the midwest. You'll have lots of sunshiny days ahead!

Love,
Bethie

[Valentine]

Figgy-poo, amazingly it doesn't hurt and there is no pang...it is just a sigh, a headshake and the inner thought: smart move, Mr. Brainiac.

...and I AM glad his crazy ass has NOT been at my house for 2 years!!!!

I am free!

Love you sweets!

Valentine

[Valentine]

Bethie, you are right...there will be plenty of sunshine days ahead of me! And what happens to him is of no consequence to me as well.

I think these men/women blame us even though it may be obvious to the outsider that we are so far removed...indeed, we may live in a different, city, state, country but they are so deluded an resist facing their problems that somehow it will always be our 'fault'. I don't care about that anymore...I am ready to take responsibility for my own actions and build a wonderful life...

Smooches!
Valentine

[ACJ]

I AM better equipped to deal with him and his shenanigans much better now

We both are. In the space of a week I've suddenly realised I am enjoying life again. I hope you feel the same.

[Lissie]

Long Haired Walrus. LHW

You are fab mami.

love you