Well it doesn't sound like OW's H wants to be friends with you.
He sees your value and is drawn to you.
How comfortable are you being friends with someone you are not attracted to, but who might be interested in you?
I was wondering about that too. Was it "When Harry met sally" movie where he says there are no just friendships between men and women, usually the guy likes the woman or something like that? I think a lot of times that's true, that one or both are attracted to the other person.
I have that happening too, and is it wrong to have that kind of "friendship" that's maybe not really? I think at one point I kind of needed that b/c my self-confidence was zero, but now I'm wondering about the whole thing, don't want to mislead or anything....but maybe he is just interested in friendship? This stuff is so difficult!!! Karen
Karen