Bridge,

That's a great point. Sometimes it does seem that the WAW hooks up with someone quicker than their spouse sometimes. It could come from the fantasy idea of what they're ideal romantic relationship would be.

In the case of my wife, she still works with the guy whom she had the EA with. So even though she says that the affair is over, psychologically, I don't think she is. And that's what is stopping her from moving on and continuing our relationship.

Sigh, it is tough to try and outshine a guy whom she sees everyday and we have such brief interactions. I just wish there were a way to really 'wow' her to get her over the hump she seems to be in now.


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2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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