Hi glamgirl, Thanks for your advice. - I sometimes read your thread and I think your H is just about to return.
I have prepared a long e-mail answering H's questions, but I might consider your suggestion. However, I will have to let him know one day that I don't want to do the filing.
I have been in this sitch for over 3 years, and maybe it is time to tell him how I feel. I dont' think it will make any difference to him coming back as he does not intend to in any case.
But kind of you give me an advice. I will think about it.
