Thanks very much for your replies.

I have tried to be more like the person I was when i first met my W. I've used to be v gym fit but had let it go. Have lost about 25lbs recently - can see my abs again !! W commented on it when we met yesterday.

W always complained I dressed too old so have been buying new clothes etc.

I guess although we are friends I guess my short terms goals wd be -

W to make contact with me first just to ask how I'm doing (she does this at present but usually when she has some matter about the sep that needs to be discussed.

W to want to come to counselling or even just to discuss R with me.


As you can see from my other thread we had a good time when i took her to the airpoirt yesterday - we had a reasonably long hug and kissed a couple of times on the cheek.

She is away at present but is getting a new car on Sun when she comes back. She said she will come over and show me but i'm unsure what to do. Do I use the LRT and say I'm going out or do I meet her and build on things?