Hi Tx mom, I had this same conversation in my head also about exposing A at work. It could play out a few ways: As Saffie said they might know already, another since H manages the distributorship there might be an ethical issue where she indirectly works for H and they both could be fired (My H is having A with direct report); do you want to take that chance? Finally, if H does find out you might push the relationship closer -- do you want to risk that? I would write down the positive and negatives of this and when you see it on paper it might help you to chose what you want to do. Keep us posted.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
