After our conversation about daughter.. I just asked him to say it...I have all the good stuff.. I love you etc in my head..just tell me your done and I will give up....
He couldnt do it..
San,
When you do this, can you see how it's still giving HIM the control, the say-so? He needs to know that YOU are calling the shots for your own happiness and peace-of-mind now, not that you're looking to him for HIS answers.
I'm so sorry about your daughter's comment. That must have really hurt.
