Thanks for the responses I will look up those 2 members.
I just want to clarify something. The ridiculing was her excuse for sending myspace messages to him saying "I look at your picture often" and TXT messages that "appeared" to indicate a relationship. She says that she was doing these things sarcastically as a joke to make fun of my insecurities to him and his GF. She has since admitted that this was wrong and it was a big part of the breakdown in trust in our M
As far as acting like the man I was 10 years ago? Yes and no. Yes I have regained some of my self confidence and I no longer rely the M or her to make me feel good about myself. As I have told her I don't need the marriage to feel good about myself anymore. But no, I don't play hockey 4 days a week and smoke a 1/2 oz of pot.
her possible reasons for not wanting to file are: She doesn’t have a job right now and doesn’t feel she can D until she does, she will miss our lifestyle (nice house, nice cars, and money) but admits that’s not a good reason, she will miss my family, she doesn’t want me mad at her, and most recently she wants to see my pov on improving the R.
I doubt the A is over. She is still keeping cell phone/computer passwords etc from me. Also does anyone have an opinion on GALing and going out tonight even if it seems she doesn’t like me doing this?
