My W wants to be friends too. I don't think I want that if we D. Civil for the kids, sure. But not friends.
I met with the L yesterday and I learned a lot, had a good long talk. L cleared up many factors in my sitch and refered me to a really good mediator. I have the option of having this L advise during the process but we decided pretty much what I wanted and what I need to do so it might not be necessary. If anything turns for the worse it's nice to have backup.
I need to tell W and then set it up.
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08
