Originally Posted By: tiredandlost
In Jak's defense, I talk to her frequently, and I don't honestly believe that this OW is like that. She has done nothing to make him believe that she is the least bit interested in her H. This is just a infatuation he has with her. There has been no "affair" per say, just his feelings for her in which the "ow" has openly let jak know every time he has made contact with her.

I know, I know what your all going to say, BUT there ARE decent people out there that are honest, and I believe that this is so in her case. There are such things as one -sided affairs or shall I say "fantasy affairs"

I have been prvy to other info that jak has told me personally, and what jak feels is completly accurate EXCEPT...



Hry Jak,

Like I said I am not familiar with your total sitch. Sorry if it sounded like I was getting on your case. But....

" infatuation " or not... telling someone to back off and I don't want any contact can't be tht hard.I still can't see why this OW can't just cut all ties......

hope thingswork out with doctor and maybe someday retro...

Dr LOve.


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know