The D is dismissed. Now what?

[glamgirl]

Yes Upside if the conversations are going good then absolutely continue them without c present. That comment was more from my own perspective. My h is NOT as far along as your h with acceptance of R talks and I can't have any deep convos with him yet or he goes scurrying towards the cave.

If they just start going sideways then just smile and nod and save that for c on neutral ground.

You know your h best!