Hi MWG, breton, glam and NG--- My patience is wearing a little thin again. It is so strange because when my H and I spend time together like last weekend, I really feel like we are reconnecting but then he can go days without talking to me. He had told me this week was going to be extremely busy for him and I did receive texts from him everyday this week except yesterday...but I feel like if we were truly reconnecting, then he would want to talk to me everyday even if he was busy. I feel like he has such a fear of recommittment...I wonder if he will ever be able to work through it.
Originally Posted By: Nature Girl
So did your H acknowledge that he didn't show up to court and the D is dismissed?
The dismissal was actually anti-climactic...there were no epiphanies or talks of reconciliation. In fact, I had to ask my H if he had gone to court that day. He told me he didn't go. I asked what that meant and he told me that the D would be dismissed. There was a little more discussion about whether or not it would be dismissed for sure but I didn't not ask him what it all means for him. I know in my H's mind, we are working on things so I just left it at that.
Nothing about this situation is playing out like anything I could have ever imagined...and I doubt there will ever be any movie-like moments where my H decisively reconnects with me and we live happily ever after. I will just be happy IF things evolve to us truly reconnecting and we continue to work at being happy together.
