My H works for a manufacturer and only he and his boss lives here - he is in sales and manages Texas.
My H has a company they hire to do all the street sales and marketing and he manages this distributor. The OW works at the distributor. The only way for his boss to find out is for someone to call him and leave a message.
I know plenty of people at the distributor as well but they are all friends of his and mine for that fact... but I think if I told some of the guys they would stay true to him as his friends.. remember my H is going to tell everyone he hasn't been happy for awhile, it has nothing to do with the OW, blah blah blah...
I think I'm going to have a friend leave a message for the OW boss and my H boss - acting like she has seen them together.
Will this back fire?? Will my H be so mad that there is no way he'd come back b/c he would figure I am the one that told... Would I be able to take him back once everyone knows???
I'm up in the air about this but I think I will somehow tell his boss...
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08