Watching,Listening,Waiting.... #4

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In Jak's defense, I talk to her frequently, and I don't honestly believe that this OW is like that. She has done nothing to make him believe that she is the least bit interested in her H. This is just a infatuation he has with her. There has been no "affair" per say, just his feelings for her in which the "ow" has openly let jak know every time he has made contact with her.

I know, I know what your all going to say, BUT there ARE decent people out there that are honest, and I believe that this is so in her case. There are such things as one -sided affairs or shall I say "fantasy affairs"

I have been prvy to other info that jak has told me personally, and what jak feels is completly accurate EXCEPT...

This is for you jak..

Your going to have to be more adament about him wanting to be friends with her, because as long as he keeps holding this candle for her, he won't start to work on you two. This has to be your condition with staying and working towards your M or you will take those packed bags and be on your way. I know he is in MLC mode like we talked about, and with everything else going on its not helping matters.

Don't get me wrong, I don't think you should talk to this woman on a daily basis, and you always have to be careful, but I don't honestly think from what you have told me that she is out to break you guys up, or she wouldn't be avoiding him like the plague and letting you know when he's made contact.

Im here if you need to talk.

(((((jak))))