Lodo, your feelings are natural, and W's actions are script. I don't think you need to get to a point where you feel justified to do things, or feel OK about her feeling pain also.
You need to get to a point where her reactions to the sitch are irrelevant to you, and you do what you need to because it is the best thing for you.
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