It's The Only One You've Got

[ernest88]

Mike - As I've said a few times I think, the evenings are tough on your own. You are not used to it, it's lonely. I hate it personally and believe it's part of what is catching up with me in this whole thing.

I've spoken to others who've D and they also say that is tough. To much thinking time and you can't help but think about your sitch, your life etc. I'm trying to get into Meditation, maybe you could give that a go ?

I don't know. need to find some outlet. Lots of anger building over the last 3 days..mostly aimed at STBX. Not because it's over or any of that..I think it's just anger to be angry..

[fig]

boxing works

i also used that time to go to the gym

all the super gymrat freaks are gone and it was mea nd all theother overweight single working moms and some old guys

they never laughed when i fell off the elyptical machine
(for real...don't ask...there was blood invovled)

i also would go to a coffeeshop nearby and have coffee or hot cocoa or tea even and people watch

i didn't necessarily want to be with anyone but being alone or with my family got stiffling

7-10 was a good time for me sometimes

[ernest88]

i didn't necessarily want to be with anyone but being alone or with my family got stiffling

exactly...no family..can't handle that at the moment. As a matter of fact I'm familied out at the moment. Seeing them everyday for the last 5-8 weeks is enough for a while. The gym is easier for me right after work..when all the freaks are there..lol

people watching may work..

[ernest88]

The weekend is here. Finally. Not much going on the last two days for me. Working out, doing chores around the house. Watched the movie "Jumper" night before last. Work out day today. Going to see the movie "Nights in Rodanthe" tonight. It was filmed on the Outer Banks. I actually know the exact house it was filmed in. I need to go watch a good LOOOOOVVVVEEE story..

Had D last night for a few hours. Have her tomorrow overnight and then that will be the last of the 6 week transistional crap..the permanent visitation starts on Oct. 8th.

Watched Survivor last night. Still angry with STBX and still a bit lonely at night before bed. Still looking for outlets for both of those things.

[Arthur]

Mike - As I've said a few times I think, the evenings are tough on your own. You are not used to it, it's lonely. I hate it personally and believe it's part of what is catching up with me in this whole thing.

I've spoken to others who've D and they also say that is tough. To much thinking time and you can't help but think about your sitch, your life etc. I'm trying to get into Meditation, maybe you could give that a go ?

There's something in the air Mike, that is me too this week. I think it's having to much time now house done, you got to much time to think and get bored easily.

Ever thought of buying properties and doing them up with Bruv in Law as a side line ? Should be some bargains around now !!

I don't know. need to find some outlet. Lots of anger building over the last 3 days..mostly aimed at STBX. Not because it's over or any of that..I think it's just anger to be angry..

[Purple]

What did you think of Jumper? I was keen to watch it but heard it got crap reviews and then I just didn't get around to it.

[ernest88]

It was OK..Lots of action and an OK storyline. I've seen worse movies..Samuel L. Jackson was in it playing a (sort of) bad guy..surprise, surprise..

[ernest88]

Ever thought of buying properties and doing them up with Bruv in Law as a side line ? Should be some bargains around now !!

too much work man..just too much work..

[Racefan]

House flipping can be a good money maker need 2 things though to make it work:

1. Money
2. A market

If you don't have enough of either it can be a big headache

[ernest88]

House flipping can be a good money maker need 2 things though to make it work:

1. Money
2. A market

If you don't have enough of either it can be a big headache

Well let's see if I can take stock and see if I could make that work..

let's see

1. Money--that would be a resounding NO and by Oct. 8th I would think I will have less than what I have now.

2. Market-the only market's I know about are supermarkets.

so there you have it..it appears house flipping is not for me.