Yes the money thing for us is becoming a HUGE issue. He took a $7 an hour pay cut changing jobs. The job change is a "good" thing for him but the money is really really bad. If he was here we could swing it, but paying for two home is not working.
I have not been able to pay any bills for the month of Sept. and there is no money. I really don't know what I am going to do. He is still depositing his check. But there just isn't enough. He talks about getting a second job. I don't know how. He doesn't sleep now. He talks about giving up his place and sleeping at work. Yea, that would be good.
Again, I really don't know what I'm going to do. It's like my hand is being forced financially.
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!