Yes the money thing for us is becoming a HUGE issue. He took a $7 an hour pay cut changing jobs. The job change is a "good" thing for him but the money is really really bad. If he was here we could swing it, but paying for two home is not working.

I have not been able to pay any bills for the month of Sept. and there is no money. I really don't know what I am going to do. He is still depositing his check. But there just isn't enough. He talks about getting a second job. I don't know how. He doesn't sleep now. He talks about giving up his place and sleeping at work. Yea, that would be good.

Again, I really don't know what I'm going to do. It's like my hand is being forced financially.


M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!