Hmmm - is it just me or am I being portrayed as the bad guy here? Didn't RMG suggest earlier that this would be the case? She caused me the worst pain I've ever felt and told a judge that she was absolutely sure we were completely incompatible, but she doesn't understand why I don't want to be friends? After the cheating and lying and refusing to talk and being outright cruel, she is sorry that I turn her into a monster?
I don't know. Maybe it's just me but I feel justified in shutting her out of my life. This is what she wanted, right?
Lodo, I know you loved her brother. I can see it in your posts. IMO, she is BCC...they all are. And yes, you're justified in shutting her out. I've always felt that if they make this decision then they should feel the full ramifications of that decision. In other words, "they should not have their cake and eat it to" whether it be financial loss, loss the the family structure, loss of the "best thing that has ever happened to them" they should feel that loss just as we do.
You're gonna be ok. keep moving forward. Good things coming for you buddy..
