my h never complained about his looks and never bought new clothes. his taste in food, clothes, music, etc. never changed either.
he drank a lot more due to the guilt of having the a. the money he has spent in the last year or so has been quite a bit which has gone toward rent over there and since he could not afford it, he was using credit cards to pay for it.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19