I am a great advocate of exposure and stopping the secrecy.
I jusy wanted to prepare you though for the fact that people at your H's work might already know. I was shocked to discover all the staff at my H's Co. knew about his A. I think because he is the boss no-one dared to say anything about it though.
Once I got over the shock it became evident that although they knew.......they were not happy about it. That did work in my favour, once they knew I knew. It helped drive out the OW as the other staff became very public about their dislike of her, (apart from my H's PA who was close to the girl....had to be I guess for it all to continue....and I have an ongoing problem with her and me not trusting her).
Is there anyone your H works with that you are close to and could talk to about this?
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
